All my foxy little brides on a budget, this one's for ya'll!
My husband and I paid for our wedding with the exception of the open bar (thanks to my awesome FIL aka father in law) and the cakes (thanks mom and dad!). With that being said, we were able to pull off the whole shebang in under 10K thanks to a couple little diy's and tricks of the trade. A LOT of the lower cost was due to our location which was an all-inclusive (meaning ceremony, reception, food, cake service, etc..) hotel but it was in a small town. Our cost would've doubled had we done something in the city, but it just worked out to have it in our college town.
Pinterest was just becoming a thing when we were engaged, unfortunately, so I hardly got the chance to have the super adorable 'Pinteresty' weddings you fine ladies are having now. Regardless, I feel like I could pass on some budget-friendly knowledge to anyone who's looking for ways to save a penny or two.
1. Flowers
I've decided I actually need to quit my life and become a weddings-only florist because they make a KILLING. If you haven't looked at the cost of having even just a couple arrangements, girl you might as well just kiss $500+ goodbye.
I was like no thank you, I'll just spend $80 and made my girls' and my bouquets. Ya'll... it's so much easier than you think and the possibilities are endless. I chose to make a few fabric flowers and add in some fake florals, broaches, feathers, and some sentimental jewels as well. The handles?... paper towel rolls... shhhh. I'll have a how-to on the flowers soon, but until then, here are a couple photos so you get the idea :)
Floral bouquets: $150 ea
Vs.
Fabric bouquets: $10 ea
I also made the flower ball our precious flower girl carried. Styrofoam ball, tissue paper, ribbon, and and little hot glue, and you've made magic!
2. Table Decor
I was given some brilliant advice when planning: Candle light. Candle light. Candle light.
In a semi-dark room, candles provoke a romantic and chic atmosphere. This was my alternative to having floral centerpieces... which, again, would've been an arm and a leg. I bought large 3-wick candles from hob lob (40% off of course), spray painted them navy, wrapped them in pink ribbon, added a couple bejewel-ments around the ribbon and sat them each in their own stand. The stands were small terracotta pots/ saucers I spray painted, and glued as you see them below.
Floral centerpieces: $250 ea
vs.
Candle centerpieces: $15 ea
3. Programs and Printables
I highly recommend printing your own invitations/ programs/ thank you's etc.... unless you want a calligrapher, metallic print, or a reallllllly specific color that your printer won't print. Even so, I strongly suggest to print some of the less-highlighted handouts (favor notes, door hangers, agendas, etc...) yourself just because that alone will save you lots of mula. You can find pretty paper at Michael's and Hobby Lobby had the best option for invitations and ribbon that I saw.
From a Printing Source -200 guests
Invitations: $400+
Programs: $250+
VS.
DIY -200 guests
Invitations: $100 (plus ink cartridge for printer)
Programs: $100 (plus ink cartridge for printer)
***Include your 'Thank you for coming, this is how much we love you' note on your program to save paper and money***
All of the printables below were projects I did for other friends' weddings in Powerpoint or Word. You can get some pretty awesome fonts for FREE from
this safe-to-download website. You can google free clipart and fun patterns for an even more sassy hand-out. Just save them as JPG. or a PDF. so it'll print like a picture and when you send them to other people (if you need to) they'll be able to see the correct fonts and arrangement.
4. Cake
So I've decided that the second career I need to jump into is wedding cakes. Although there are many alternatives to your #basic wedding cake (i.e. cookie towers and cup cakes), all of these options will most likely account for a large fraction of your wedding budget. I'm talking $700 for a basic white wedding cake.... like what? I'm pretty sure the shopping list, alone, for that one cake is probably around $30..... hence my new career choice lol
I was all on board the cup cake train when my mom mentioned cheese cake petit fours as a possibility and a light bulb went off. Not many people I know don't love a good piece of cheese cake AND it's different *bonus!* since that's also what I was going for. Enter The Cheese Cake Factory. A cheese cake from the CCF comes in 8 slices for about $48; however, each of those slices can be split into 3rds for an actual normal serving size. 6 cheese cakes x 24 slices from each cake = 144 pieces! Perfect for our 120 guests.
Let's do the math:
Wedding cake from bakery: $500-$700+
Cheese cakes from CCF: $240
Also, wedding toppers can be anything these days. I found our initial above at Hobby Lobby for like $4. The cheese cakes were a big hit and what makes it even better is that we can have our wedding cake every anniversary if we want. Just have to swing by a CCF :)
5. Favors
I've seen alllll kinds of favors. It's a fun way to do something sweet for your guests who've traveled from near and far that is unique to you and your new spouse. Cookie cutters, horse shoes (for luck), a candy bar so they can take home your favorite sweets, and a couple's favorite fast food snack...which is perfect after you've danced yourself back into a state of hunger are all good ideas.
My advice here is to choose something unique that personifies you both i.e. blue bonnet seeds if you're from Texas or coffee beans if you're both big cafe con leche fans. Do it in bulk aka a grab-as- you-go thing if possible, like our candy bowl below, or some kind of food take-away because that is usually less expensive. You can buy little jars, bags, or envelopes on etsy or at a local party supply warehouse/ store. In Houston, I would suggest
Arnes!
Here are some other unique
ideas.
6. Your grand exit
This tip is for those who are looking for something other than sparklers, bubbles, or petals. We made ribbon dancers out of skewers and 2-inch ribbon in our wedding colors. It was actually really fun to run through and they were so inexpensive, we just had everyone trash them in end without care because we literally only spent about $20 on all 150 of them lol.
I will say I love a good sparkler picture if you have a night time wedding, but a lot of venues don't allow them anymore and they can get pretty smokey if you don't run through just as they're lit. My suggestion is to do something that will give you pretty pictures but that can be easily cleaned up or disposed of. Bird seed is traditional but it doesn't make for great pictures and glitter/ confetti is a NIGHTMARE so make sure it's biodegradable and that your venue allows it.
Here are a couple more ideas:
|
Like ours, but with bells! LOVE.
|
More tips on how to make your wedding day as flawless as you coming soon!
Cheers!